13 steps to solve all life problems and challenges in Career, Business and Private Endeavour

Life is unpredictable .The life of a man on earth is determine by fate which nature as endow or bestow on him. The whole life is full of risks and uncertainty much that it’s hard for any man to 100% predicts the outcome of some his decision. However, how then can a man survive this world without taking some logical and uncalculative risks to meet his needs and realize his goals? Can a man live in this world without jobs, employee, marriage, family issues, employers, economic challenges, social and political activities, relationships, religion and basic needs of life such as food, house, and clothing, freedom etc. these are things that sustain and make the world worth living for man but these are also the sources of human problems. When all these things form a basis of resonance with mans will, he is fulfils and a bit happy but when it is in disharmony with a mans will then there is a lot of problems

Hence, what really astonished me most is that, where one is busying try to troubleshoot and find solution to a particular problem shortly another one may emerges which might even be in worse state than the previous.  Ironically, consulting the next person to you who you perceive as a free person, you will be amazed that, the person owns predicament might even be worse than your own present circumstances. This simply means that, if you think that the mantle of your problem is the highest in life why don’t you talk to the next person beside you. This is to remind you that nobody without a particular kind of problem(s) but the only thing is that, the form and magnitude of the problems may differ

The focal point in this case is that, no matter dense or flexible your problem is, know fully that you are not the first or the last to have such problem, In fact everybody on earth regardless your prospects, opportunities, connection, influence, investment, popular, successful one his ,you are borne to have some challenges and subject of worry no matter how small it is .However, it is in habit of many people to spend all the day long thinking about their problems instead of seeking ways to resolve it. Problem is part of life phenomenon and the natural course which nature usually uses to educate us to live and have more fulfills life. Problem(s) enable us to learn from our past mistake and errors and possibly to make us be a better person and more experience provided we are able to logically come out of it rather than been drown in problems.

However, problems arise as a result of some certain errors one committed or which are committed by someone else on our behalf. Hence, can a man live without committing errors or mistakes whether consciously or otherwise? I believe the answer is “NO”. This is because even the creator of all committed an error by creating man! Therefore, no matter how perfect you are, you can’t be as perfect as the creator of earth. Hence, in carrying out daily activities of life is either you wrong somebody or vice versa. Then problem(s) will always be there!

What to do if there are problem(s)

Problem preceded all unfavorable action against one will or the wills of others.

What I have notice over the years is that majority do not easily get out of problems even some died in it as a result of the following factors

1.      They focus on thinking about their problems instead of focusing on how to resolve it

2.      People focus more on complaining and blaming others or oneself instead of seeking ways to retrace the source of their  problem and solve it

3.      People consults and take to wrong counsel whether from friends, lovers, parent, mentor, guardian, counselor and religion leader which compound their problems and worsen their predicament instead of fixing the problem(s)

4.      People tend to live or died with problems instead of managing it

5.      Most people do not focus on ways to resolve their issues but instead focus on magnitude of their problems

6.      Most people even after overcoming their problems learn not to forget their past errors , happening and mistakes but instead retracing the past odds and hurts

Reality About life problems

The fact remains that, no life without problem(s). In fact, how much you are successful is a function of how much hurdles you have overcome in life. Hence, you can’t totally run away from problems because if you refuse to cause one for yourself what about people that surround you they may cause one for you. Hence, do not run away from problems but shy away from it but if it eventually or logically comes, trace your steps, fix it and move on with your life.

For the sake of this discussion, I will categorize life problem(s) into 3

1.   Flexible/solvable problem(s)

This implies simple , basic and manageable problems of life which can easily be personally resolved e.g. unemployment, failed relationship, loss of jobs, safety mishap, inadequate income to salvage needs, social disappointment, mistrust, etc. most problems in this category can be handle, analyze and solve personally without much assistance from others. Solving this type of problem require one to identify where the error is committed and fix it.

2.   Rigid problem(s)

Solving this type of problem is usually beyond personal control especially people that are feeble minded and of little traumatic life experience. problems in this category may include: broken marriage, loss of investment, involvement in fatal accident, loss of accommodation, fraud, crime etc, insecurity mess such as kidnapping, Rape, riot, . however, most life problem(s) in this category usually put people in state of confusion and self control can be lost thus external assistance may be needed to sort out this problem because it take a great level of personal determination and sacrifices to personally get out of this problem

3.   Complex / Acute problem(s)

Some hiccups in life are just beyond human control and circumstances in this regard cannot easily be resolved” hence, problem in this nature arises totally out of personal control even to some extent beyond third party intervention. This type of problem lies between death and life because the end of this problem in terms of it outcome can not be ascertain or predicted. Few life problems in this circumstances includes: murder, corruption charges, lost of huge investment, loss of love ones (death), terrorism, political unrest, natural disaster, plane crash alert, train mishap. “However, most of problem in this category usually happen in a hopeless situation totally beyond human control”. The probability to survive this type of problem is very low!

Is there any hopeless situation in life without any solution? The answer is No! it depend on who is involve as there is always a solution to every problems excepts when life is gone!

How to tackle life problems

Problems in life no matter it complexity can be resolve. In solving any problem(s) systematically observe these 13 steps

 

1. Identify the source of the problem
2.  Categorize the problems
   
3. Identify the causes of the problem(s)
4. Analyze the problem cause
5. Project possible solutions 
6. Seek alternative solution 
7. Use trials and error to see which one work/ which do not 
8.  Pick the best alternative 
9. Implement the best alternative 
10. Evaluate your result 
11. Identify and collate your wrong and right 
12. Learn from it
13. Leave the past alone and move on  

However, whatever the problem(s) you are facing regardless from any arc of life, you can overcome it not by thinking about the magnitude of the problem but application of some of these principles to trace your wrong, identify and analyze your wrong, identify possible solution and implement it, correct the wrong and move on with your life.

Wish you all the best possible in life