2013 is gone forever and every
moment of the year cannot be reclaimed by anyone. The most important thing is
that, what one does with it is a function of success attained in 2013 that one
of the most pervasive myths in today’s world is that people believe they are
entitled to a great life – that somehow, somewhere,
someone is responsible for filling their lives with continual
happiness, exciting career options, nurturing family time and blissful personal
relationship simply because we exist.
Hence, “the real truth and the
main point of reference in this article is to show that there is only one
person responsible for the quality of life you live and that person is you”
Note
If you want to be successful, you
have to take 100% responsibility for everything that you experience in your
life. It means the level of your achievement, the result you produce, the
quality of your relationships, the state of your health and physical fitness,
your income, your debt, your feelings- In fact everything depend on you.
In fact, people conditioned to blame something on others, some blame
their parents, bosses, their friends, the media, their co workers, their
clients, their spouse, the weather, the economy, the astrological chart, their
lack of money and anyone or anything they can pin the blame on. We never want
to look at where the real problem is – ourselves.
As you are in to another year,
ask yourself these three simple questions
- Have you taken 100% responsibility of your life?
- Have you ever complained about anything?
- Have you ever blamed anyone for any, for any
circumstances in your life?
If your answer to these question
is No or you are not sure of your suppose response for now then it means you
have not taken one hundred percent responsibility for your life
Taking one hundred percent
responsibility for your life means you acknowledge that you create everything
that happens to you. It means you understand that you are the cause of all your
experience. If you want to be really successful then you will have to give up
blaming and complaining others but take total responsibility for your life –
that means all your results both your success and your failures is the course
of your previous engagement
Note
It is only by acknowledging that,
you have created everything up till now that you can take charge of creating
the future you want. If you want to create the life of your dreams in this New
Year, then you have to take 100% responsibility for your life. That means
giving up all your excuses, all your victims stories, all the reasons why you
can’t and why you haven’t up until now and all your blaming of outside
circumstances. You have to give them all up for this year
You have to take the position that
you have always had the power to make it different, to get it right, and to
produce the desire result. If in previous years, you have not exercise that
power in you due to ignorance, lack of awareness, fear, needing to be right,
the need to feel safe, that is the past. All that matters now is that
henceforth, take 100% responsibility for everything that does or doesn't happen
to you.
The simple but very important
formula that make idea of 100% responsibility work is given thus
E + R = O
Event + Response = Outcome
What I want all of us to learn
from this simple mathematical relationship is that, for every outcome you will
experience in 2014 and in life generally whether success or failure, wealth or
poverty, health or illness, intimacy or estrangement, joy or frustrations is an addition of your event engagement and
your responses towards it. The simple success anchor for this year is that;
respond assiduously to goals and result oriented events throughout the year and
success shall accompany all your effort.
Cheers from all us at ezone
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