The creation of earth has it in
such a way that man sometimes have to depend on another man to overcome some challenges.
The numerous challenges face by man usually compels one to look out for
assistance from other persons. Two things is very important in life
- At one point or the other nobody has ever not seek
help from others
- At the same time, one person or the other must have
seek help from us
Therefore, mans fulfillment and
realization of purpose on earth is interdependence. I have never sees any human
being in life that succeeds without other fellow. Writing this article
constrain me to be of opinion that never rest on mans promises. Sometimes,
situation and challenges of life constraint you to seek for help whether in the
right or wrong places.
This is one of those catch 22 situation of
life in which you have no option, alternative or idea of how to solve your
present problem. Personally inside, there is presence of rejection inside of you
and you couldn't help yourself. I believe at one point or the other we are all
faced by this situation instead of you putting the problem aside and personally
find a way to solve the problem, we tends to entrust the solution to others
Longtime ago, I got an
inspiration that, you can only share your success with others but never try to
share your problem because no one want to be part of it. When there is a
problem and you are helpless and out of control then you seek for assistance
from those you think that can help you, three categories of people you are
likely to meet
- People you request to help you
- people that volunteer to help you
- people you think that will come to your rescue
However, out of these 3 category
of individual, you are likely to meet one person in which their desire to help
you will sound so promising but never mind, close to the time of redeem of
promises, they will disappoint you
People take advantage of your ill
circumstances to play you around without you knowing it, they tell you all
those compassionate, encouraging and dependable words to calm you down, show
how nice they are to you, how caring they are to you, the level of their
support and commitment to you but close to your eye you will be surprise that
all their promise will soon vanish to thin air
Never rest on mans promises for
anything, 98% of it is made out of pretense, deceit and without sincerity of
heart. It is the most beautiful word of the moment, its like smoke that will
soon disappear. If you are confronted by any challenges of life, you only have
two dependable companions
Y
Yourself! Yourself!! Yourself!!!
Y
God the creator of the universe
However, if the worst happen in
life look up to your creator and have 100% trust in yourself that you can sort
things out without depending solemnly on fail promises of man. If others par
adventure volunteer to sort you out and they did fine, it means, they are God
sent but if not “you are on your own”. Think from this perspective, in your
mother womb, at birth and also when life is over in the grave you also face
live alone
When the journey of life is
becoming tough, adjust and respond to it, look within yourself instead of
waiting for millennium miracle that may not come., adjust and respond to it ,
look within yourself instead of depending on others. Look at the challenges you
are facing and analyzed the situation, develop several solution alternative to
apply such that if one option fail try others. At the same time, put yourself
at the top of the situation. Those who depend on others people to solve their
problems will have so much troubles and experience constant and repeated
disappointment.
Many people around you relied on
what you can bring to the table not what to take out of the table. Hence, try
to learn how to manage situation no matter how bad it is. Believe in yourself,
trust yourself and hope in your creator. Do not continue to think of the
magnitude of your problem instead spend more time alone to diagnose on possible
solution.
No matter what, the problem is
temporal but not permanent if you do the right thing. Put yourself first before
seeking for external assistance
In summary, this article is not
to brainwash you that, there is no help anywhere, there is but if you relied on
external or third party assistance to resolve issues in your life, make sure
you reserve enough money for treatment of hypertension, break of heart and high
blood pressure. You can create the world you want without minding the world of
others
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